Where woman do not fit the Iron Maiden [societal expectations/assumptions about women's bodies], we are now being called monstrous, and the Iron Maiden is exactly that which no woman fits, or fits forever. A woman is being asked to feel like a monster now though she is whole and fully physically functional. The surgeons are playing on the myth's double standard for the function of the body. A man's thigh is for walking, but a woman's is for walking and looking "beautiful." If women can walk but believe our limbs look wrong, we feel that our bodies cannot do what they are meant to do; we feel as genuinely deformed and disabled as the unwilling Victorian hypochondriac felt ill. . Naomi Wolf
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In the 19th century, hypochondria was a major medical condition. People got sick from everything from minor conditions to serious diseases. In order to make people feel better and keep them from getting sick, doctors often diagnosed people with hypochondria and treated them accordingly. Symptoms that might be present in an actual disease were given to people who were just being picky about their food and exercise routine.

However, there was one specific symptom that women were blamed for having: walking around with an unnaturally shaped body. The idea of the Iron Maiden is that the female figure is supposed to be slender and graceful with little or no curves. This thought was so widespread that women were blamed for any deviation from the ideal shape.

And yet, this idea was so absurd it's pretty hard to blame women for feeling like monsters.

Source: The Beauty Myth

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